Is there any legal recourse for a NCP who refuses to visit his infant son for 1 full month?

Well, you can't blame her since you two were lovers and share a child. I think you are reasonable to go back to the 2 hour visits. You can certainly ask that other people butt out. I can also tell you that the Dad is going to bail again, so I wouldn't try to hard expecting the visits to continue. He doesn't sound all that enthusiastic, so I'm guessing that by one year, he will be out of the kid's life. He's going to put his wife before a kid he didn't want and probably doesn't want to have contact with.